Love is
knowing someone completely and totally and still loving them, in spite of the
things that make your head explode.
My mum
and dad celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary last weekend and their love
and relationship is an inspiration. Neither of them are perfect. And they
certainly drive each other crazy from time to time, but when you hear the
concern in Dad's voice as he talks about Mum's health or see the look on Mum's
face as Dad spins her round on the dance floor, in those moments you are seeing
true love in its most beautiful and most enduring form.
They wanted to celebrate this milestone with just us, their immediate family, so we joined my sister's family and Mum and Dad at the Ventnor Hotel in Port Vincent
for dinner. We had actually all been at Pt Vincent for the Australia Day
weekend, so it wasn't like it was so special to all be catching up, but it was
special to not have to cook dinner or do the dishes!
My
sister, Roxy, and I wanted to add a little something special to the evening, and,
even though I actually make greeting cards for a living, I had forgotten to get
a card from work, so my daughter (Miss M) and I wandered off to the local shops
to see what we could buy to decorate the table and make a card with. I was hoping
for some love heart confetti, but no luck. Instead we bought some love heart
stickers, regular confetti, red and gold card, and some valentines cards to cut
up. (Thank goodness it's nearly Valentines Day!)
We
brought our loot home and Miss M got stuck into making a card. She has such an
Intrinsic heart, the poem she wrote on the front of the card is so special.
Roxy's boys also wanted to get in on the action and both drew beautiful
pictures for Mum and Dad.
I got to
work on the table decorations, and cut up love hearts out of the left over
paper. I wrote little messages on the back of the hearts, which Mum really
liked. I also cut up the valentines cards and cut the letters Newton loves Sue
out of card.
Miss M
and I went down to the pub early to decorate the table and to make sure the
drinks were all on the table ready for when the guests of honour arrived. They
absolutely loved it.
We had a
great meal and as we were finishing our dinner, the weather started to change
and we watched the clouds rolling across the gulf, and then the water crashing over the jetty. We had no choice but to walk home in the wind and the misty rain. It was still quite warm though and the weather had quite a magical quality to it. Miss M loved the wind and rain and danced out on the balcony when we got home like a water sprite.
Happy Anniversary Mum and Dad xx
Have you reached a milestone celebration recently, how do you like to commemorate your special life events, do you like to decorate up a storm and have lots and lots of people, or do you like to keep it quiet with just close family or your besties?
Happy Anniversary Mum and Dad xx
Have you reached a milestone celebration recently, how do you like to commemorate your special life events, do you like to decorate up a storm and have lots and lots of people, or do you like to keep it quiet with just close family or your besties?
That's so beautiful Sandy. I love the photos you've used but my favourite is Em's poem, she really is an Intrinsic girl. How gorgeous. Make sure you tell Mum how to look at this!! Xxx
ReplyDeleteThanks Rox! I forwarded this the link to Mum and she really liked it. She must have even printed it off for Dad to read. Dad rang me to say how much he loved it, and how special he thought my story was. I think he was really touched by it xx
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